What is squirting? And how do you squirt during sex?
As a guy, who has been video-watching women ejaculating streams of liquid from their vaginas, you may consider it a normal or standard way by which they attain the pleasure peak. Even though squirting equates to immeasurable pleasure, it is definitely not a ‘usual’ or ‘easy-to-reach’ act for most of the women. As for them, it is like a strong urge to pee, something which instills in them the emotions of fear, embarrassment, and being judged. Although female ejaculate leaves the body through the urethra, it is not (as was once believed) urine. There are some similarities to pee however, and female ejaculate does contain very dilute amounts of creatine and urea2.
These types of vibrators, also known as rabbit vibrators, provide simultaneous stimulation to both the clitoris and the G-spot. They typically have a shaft for internal penetration and a protruding arm or attachment for clitoral stimulation. The combination of clitoral and G-spot stimulation can potentially increase arousal and pleasure. However, it’s important to note that not all women will experience squirting, and it’s not a goal that everyone needs to strive for. Squirting is not an indicator of sexual satisfaction or pleasure.
Please note this is really bad for the health of your pelvic floor and I don’t advise it. The first step in learning how to ejaculate involves masturbation. Sex therapist turned neuroscientist Nan Wise, PhD, says her research has shown that strengthening your pleasure pathways by experiencing pleasure regularly can make orgasms more accessible. Lola Jean agrees that figuring out squirting through solo play is best because you don’t have to worry about another person, which can sometimes be what causes sexual hangups and trauma.
For one, you’re not uncomfortable, and two, you don’t have to worry about risking an injury. So this becomes far more relaxing, enjoyable, and capable of hitting the g-spot. If you are comfortable with it, you may also consider moving to the bathtub or somewhere similar for the first few orgasms. That allows you to get comfortable with your squirting orgasms without having to worry about soiling the bed.
Squeeze some into your hand, rub it with your fingers to warm it, then touch her. From the scalp to the soles of the feet, every square inch of the body is a sensual playground, but too many men focus on just a few corners and forget the rest. Think of sex as a whole-body massage that eventually includes the genitals. Whole-body massage produces deep relaxation, which helps women (and men) have orgasms. Some non-genital spots that can feel surprisingly erotic include the scalp, ears, face, neck, feet, and the backs of the knees. Examples of great foreplay include relaxing massages, a lot of teasing to make her extra horny, and eating her pussy (orgasms optional).
Instead, you’ll feel her get REALLY wet, and you’ll end up with a noticeable amount of fluid on the bed. So keep in mind — if you want to see her project ejaculate across the room like an orgasmic encore, be sure to use fingers and toys. She’ll probably let you know which ones she likes the best and which ones aren’t working for her. The longer you stimulate her g-spot, the more erect and juicy her g-spot is going to get. She’s going to be open, dripping wet, and pushing her pubic bone closer to you.
If you feel something spongy and ribbed how to make a woman squirt, that’s it. I know I’m close when I hear crazy wet slurping sounds coming from my box and I feel the incredible urge to bear down on whatever is inside me. Some people experience this as a similar feeling to needing to pee. I have a hard time squirting when my [vagina] is full, so me saying, “Pull out! Pull out! Pull out!” is normally a surefire sign that I’m about to squirt. Sometimes there’s a delay of up to ten seconds after withdrawal before I come.